Shadows of the Undefined Head Center: Savior Complex | Human Design for Business

One of the shadows of the undefined/open Head Center is wanting to answer everyone’s questions and remove uncertainty, doubt, problems etc.

Are you guilty of that?

I sure as hell am! 🙋‍♀️

Thinking about my client’s problems and looking for how to help them was my badge of honour.🎖

Couple that with people pleasing that a lot of us suffer from, and I thought I was doing a good thing.

I still think about my clients and how to best guide them, it’s my passion, but I now understand where my responsibility ends and yours begins.

I’ve learned that I cannot care about someone’s issues and dreams more than they do.

Some people combine this shadow with the feeling of not getting the love they want from others if they don’t support them.

Some end up answering everyone’s questions in random Facebook groups.

And most feel the pressure to immediately come up with the answer to all of the client’s problems.

What happens is that when we’re caught in this shadow, we attract and are drawn to people & clients in distress.

And then we wonder why they don’t take responsibility and do the work…

They’re in victim mode.

As the Saviour we often sacrifice personal needs, overextends ourselves, and expend so much energy trying to fix others that we end up neglecting our own life and burning out.😓

❗️No wonder we’re unconsciously sabotaging the growth of our business!

More clients, in our subconscious mind, equals more worry, less energy, and no inner peace. 

Thankfully, this center seems to be the easiest to decondition,

– with some pattern interrupting Dr Joe Dispenza shares in his book “Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself”

– or nervous system + subconscious work like EFT, Breathwork, somatic trauma healing

– or even with subconscious rewiring modalities like Hypnosis, NLP, Quantum Healing

(I’ve tried them all. And I still use them all on this bumpy journey through life)

Unfortunately this is just one of the blocks and conditioning in your undefined centers.

If this wisdom draws you, you can explore the rest of your chart for free with the help of the HD Vault.

It’s a free Notion board that I’ve made in collaboration with other Human Design experts, and filled it with videos, books, podcasts, chart explanations, free trainings, embodiment journal, and of course a Business section.

But if you’re beyond the HD 101 – then I’d love to hold a 1:1 session with you. A power week actually:

2x 1h sessions, and a week in between, to discover, digest and discover some more about your blocks, as well as exactly how to turn them around.

To your rise ❤️

xx

Iva G